The uncomfortable truth
Here's the uncomfortable truth: that friendly chat box is not a diary, and it's not a locked room. Most AI companies store what you type, at least for a while, and plenty of them train future models on it unless you dig through settings to opt out. So the only sane rule is this: assume anything you paste could be read by a stranger someday, and type accordingly.
The six things to never paste
Burn this list into your brain. Never share:
- Social Security numbers. Obviously. Don't even test it.
- Bank account or card numbers. No exceptions.
- Passwords. Not even "is this a strong password" with the real one.
- Your home address. City is fine. Street number isn't.
- Your kids' names, ages, or schools. Ever.
- Medical details tied to your name. "What does this lab result mean" is fine. Your name plus your diagnosis isn't.
The test is simple: if losing control of it would hurt you, don't paste it. When in doubt, leave it out.
How to anonymize anything in ten seconds
You can still get help with personal situations. You just swap identifiers for roles before you paste. "My landlord, John Smith" becomes "my landlord." "My 8-year-old son Jake" becomes "my kid." "I was fired from Acme Corp on March 3rd" becomes "I was fired from my job last month." The AI doesn't need the names to help with the situation. It needs the shape of the problem, not the ID numbers attached to it.
Know the difference: server vs browser
Here's the part nobody explains. Most AI tools send your text to a company's server. But some tools run entirely in your browser: the processing happens on your machine and your words never leave it. That's a real, meaningful difference. When a tool says it runs client-side, there's nothing to store, nothing to leak, nothing to train on. For anything sensitive, that's the kind of tool you want.
Related Guides
- What to Type to Get a Good Answer From an AI Tool — specific prompts work better, and anonymized ones work safest.
- Why AI Makes Things Up (and How to Catch It) — the other trust problem: confident fiction. How to catch it.
- How to Check If Your Password Has Been Leaked — while you're thinking about what not to share, check what's already out there.